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Propriety or Prudishness 9/10/2005
When it comes to male on male love....its strictly a matter
of personal choice. I mean , most guys have had one or two.......a
few or more Homosexual encounters in their time. (and)
that is understandable.
<br>
However, I think a guy has to make some choices...........like-
I am a regular Bi-sexual or I make a living fucking other
guys -up the ass, (ect.
<br>
Now, ...
2 Comments,
223 Views,
6 Votes
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How to say "No Thanks" 9/9/2005
I've been in a lot of situations where things were offered.
Whether its a lap dance or a 3rd helping of pie, when offered
and your not interested, I've always found the best
answer to be "No Thanks". Its simple and it works.
Why do we always try to make life so complicated?
0 Comments,
234 Views,
14 Votes
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"No" doesn't = "Nasty" 9/8/2005
One of the things the Internet has added to our lives as we
seek our partner, is access to a larger pool. I live in a city
that has plenty of prospective partners, but how do you
cut through the bs and find others with compatible interests?
The Net provides safe ways, like through ALT...
First, it enables me to look at a profile, hopefully with
a picture, and see if what's said or unsaid ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
3 Votes
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After I was finished he said no thanks. 7/18/2005
I recently had a man write to me. This was the first e mail
to me and this is how I said no in a different way and gave him
a taste of his own crudeness.
_____________________________________
I'm looking for a bit of help--special help. I'm
thinking of having 4 guys over for a poker party but I need
a bit of an edge. You could help me with this edge by assuming
the role as my hostess ...
13 Comments,
1553 Views,
98 Votes
,8.00 Score
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I'm innept 7/8/2005
I meet people from thse sites occationally, and they're
never my type. I have no good way of turning them away, so
I just try and fade out of mind. Does anyone have a better
way, without hurting anyones feelings? Am I doing it right?
5 Comments,
343 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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I try to be respectful 6/30/2005
Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important.
One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one
can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point
out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's
actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes
have been made. Things that people should consider....
i think it helps them in their searches.
Sometimes ...
2 Comments,
239 Views,
19 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Meeting and Declining Sexual Invitations 6/21/2005
Has anyone ever met anyone off of this site and changed thier
mind about having sex with them because of false information
or pictures posted on the site?
4 Comments,
569 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Safety In Play 6/12/2005
Hi All,
I recently went to meet up with a mistress from the uk, called
SexyDomBitch. We had chatted on line for a week days and
had discussed a lot fo BDSM activities we both enjoyed.
During this time, She had asked me to send her 15 pictures
of myself doing things she had told me she wanted to see.
Throughout this she refused point blank to send me a picture
of herself and told me I ...
6 Comments,
568 Views,
37 Votes
,6.54 Score
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White or Wong? 5/23/2005
My sub and I have been together for 30 plus years as husband
and wide as well as Dom/sub. I am a psychologist and from
the moment I met her I realised she was a closet Bisexual.
So I encouraged her to make love with other women, although
I liked to be present. She has had some terrific lovers;
some subs as well, which has made things especially good
from my point of view. But the most ...
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348 Views,
17 Votes
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Masochism without the sex 5/12/2005
I came here looking for someone to get involved in needle
play with, not because it arouses me sexually, but because
i like the how it feels in a "pain to know you are alive"
way. I have been in the community as a voyeur for a year now,
and the only thing that i have ever seen and wanted was to
be pierced.
I came to find a piercing artist who can maybe involve me
in a show without going ...
2 Comments,
313 Views,
16 Votes
,2.25 Score
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The Message 5/6/2005
I have always found it to be very important to communicate
in some detail as of why things will not click between a new
aquaiqutance and or enquiry. Even if my mail box is flooded
with virtually dozen’s of new messages with most of them
being “canned” and very short to a degree of a few pointed
and often degrading words. My responses have varied of
course, but overall I always give a ...
1 Comments,
369 Views,
25 Votes
,4.68 Score
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2005-05-06
"SANTA, can Police seize my cell phone, if we take
pictures of our doin's; this weeek-end with Tiffany, Ooopsie,
Carmen
and me, SANTA?" Just pretend to be 14yr. old, best
"nigga-friend" of Tiff.;"DARBY"
asked, as she continued to ride SANTA's pony, with
girlish enthusiasm. The old Elf chuockled and shook his
baldling head, and giving Darby a thank-you pat on her
caramel coloured butt, he said. "New Hanover County
Judge W.Allen Cobb Jr.Superior Court, in Wilmington,
NC, ruled
that arresting officers should have obtained a search
warrant before viewing images from the camera phone of
one Mr.ChristopherSnow, 26. Mr.Snow is charged by Wrightville
Beach Police with second-degree sexual-offense and secret
peeping-photographic image. A witness told Police that
she had seen Mr.Snow taking pictures of an unconscious
woman on the beach. An officer activated the phone and retrieved
several immages, including one of someone pulling down
the woman's underwear. A warrant was obtained the
next day, and police contacted Sprint corporate headquarters,
that provided copies of seven images including one of the
woman's genital area. Judge Cobb wrote "THE
SEARCH AND SEIZURE`Did not fall with in any aknowledged
exception to the Search Warrant requirement under THE
FOURTH AMENDMENT." "WOW, " jiggled
just pretend to be 14, Darby. SANTA continued, "Police
officers violatedMr.Snow's constitutional rights
when they seized a camera-cell phone containing explicit
images." "Judge Cobb's finding, could
create legal precedant and serve as a reference point for
future cases nationwide." [please excuse any typos,
no Spell-Checker-will keep readers posted on further
cases]
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No thanks !!! 5/4/2005
Is it just me or do a lot of people have a problem with saying
"no thanks" ?
<br>
I have been a member of alt now for several yaers and have
written many well directed messages top people. My profile
is very long and my messages are always directed at the speciffic
person, couple.
<br>
At the end of my message I always ask that if you are not interested
please just send ...
3 Comments,
384 Views,
27 Votes
,7.87 Score
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It's the same in vanilla... 4/28/2005
Courtesy and thoughtfulness SHOULD BE something that
everyone practices, no matter what kind of lifestyle they
lead...I will answer each and every message sent to me,
whether or not I think we would be compatible...and yet,
time after time, I get silence from those that feel we're
not compatible...I understand that some people will get
idiots messaging them, and they should be treated ...
0 Comments,
140 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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what men want 4/14/2005
Men can stop chasing sex and say "no thanks"
but if it falls in their lap...they're all over it.
If a female walks to any guy she'll get sexual favors
3 out of 4 guys wether they're married or not
1 Comments,
194 Views,
13 Votes
,1.63 Score
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Me ? 3/20/2005
Usually I get a lot of inappropriate sexual offers because
I look so pretty. Some gays think I'm a boy HO and try
to buy me what a mistake they want a man and would run a soon
as they saw my tits! Not that wouldn't like it I'm
just not who they were thinking I was. Then some
teens try to pick-up on me usually girls who are attracted
by my looks and are under legal age not exactly who I ...
0 Comments,
233 Views,
15 Votes
,0.07 Score
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I'm a bit curious 3/10/2005
hey out there I'm not sure if this is the right place
for this but can anyone tell me why most men on here seem not
to be able to read?
now I'm not a man hater, but as my profile states I'm
looking for a girl here as, don't take offense, but
men are somewhat easier to find in normal everyday life.
but I keep getting hounded by pictures of unatractive mens
privates and it's starting to ...
13 Comments,
857 Views,
50 Votes
,5.77 Score
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flakes 2/11/2005
why are there so many dishonest deceitful guys out there?
I am very explicity as to what i give and want from a guy. Im
a bottom tgirl and say so, but they lie about their desires
and only want a BJ. Or they are a half-and-half XDreseer
and look awful with their hairy bodies and terrible clothes.
Im also through replying to non-photo members. all men
are the same - only their ugly faces ...
3 Comments,
473 Views,
27 Votes
,3.56 Score
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2005-02-10
SANTA[DATELINE]PolicingVideoVoyeurs! [The FEDS join
the battle against perverts with cameras] JOlene Jang
was enjoying an outdoor festival in Seattle withherboyfriend
when she felt uneasy by a creepy guy standing too close behind
her. He was reaching into her backpack. When she confronted
him, the man started to run away, but Jang's boyfriend
tackled him and held him until police arrived. A pickpocket?
No the man wasn't just a pickpocket he was using a small
digital video camera to take pictures up her skirt. Her
assailant pleaded that he was just taking the pictures
for his own enjoyment. The courts thought different, he
was convicted, began serving 38 days for violation of
the State Voyeurism Law. However;the WashingtonState
Supreme Court, overturned the verdict[Ruling: That
Ms.Jang was out in public when it happened, she had no reasonable
expectation of privacy.] Furious Ms.Jang became an outspoken
activist, and finally the state rewrote the law [The space
under a person's clothes private even in a public place.]
SANTA has found out that currently 44 states have some kind
of statute that makes video voyeurism a crime. A just-passed
Federal Law could help sort out the problem of State's
Laws with vague wording and First Amendment issues. [It
is a crime to secretly photograph anyone onFederal Property
or Military Bases.] Ms.Jang says, "I'm still
wearing skirts, but i make sure that they're on the
longer side." [SANTA says"Excuse.typos.no.SpellChecker."]
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SANTA; 2/2/2005
SANTA[UnDeadLine]RALEIGH, NC;I'mDead? SANTA.was.reading.Police-Blotter,
Funeral-Obituaries, and Autopsy Rep- orts for a new "Article"
when he came.across.a.MedlcalExamner's.cause
of death:"UNDEAD!"return to Franklin Regional
MEdical Ctr.Hospital. A mwdical examiner studying a body
in the morgue was taken aback when he saw the man take a short
shallow breath. ...
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95 Views,
10 Votes
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2005-02-02
SANTA[DEADLINE]VIDEO.VOYEURISM: "SANTA, What.is.the.most.recentcase
of "nonconsensual photograpy" with a video
camera?" "That would have to be when Bunny Brunt
was shopping at the Norolk Mall, in.Richmond, Va.for.prom.access-ories
with her 18-year-old daughter Raquel when she noticed
a man waving a.shopping.bag under Raquel's skirt.
obviously, if wishing he could see up her skirt, if she were
wearing panties, or maybe not, a blind shot of the teen-agers
pusse^." "When Mrs.Brunt confronted him, he
bolted. After she and another, custom er chased hin down
in the Mall. Security found a secret, hidden, video camera
vid.cam.in the shopping bag he had used to peer up Raquel's
skirt. Arrested, it was found that he had also been up-skirting.several
other-teens." "But, because of a loop-hole
in Virginia's law, prosecuters were.only able to
convict, Jeffrey Swisher of nonconsensual photography,
disorderly
conduct, to serve 10 DAYS IN JAIL!" inuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
"It's immoral, it's certainly wrong, but
under the code, it's just not a writtn offence, "said
Delegate John Cosgrove, who is sponsering a bill tyt would
close the loophole in Virgina's law. We're trying
to tight the code soo some pervert isn't able to up-skirt
or down-blouse any one else." Similar effforts have
played out across the coountry, as states struggle to to
rewoord laws written before the advancement of camers
technologyi led to a boom in digital voyeurism. The internet
has fueled the erotic explosionof"up-skirt"or"down-blouse"
into a search engine, and up to a million of Web sites have
popped up. [SANTA is going for a coffee break, if any more
of you readers are interested in what one critic of SANTA's
Articles called-"SLUDGE"-req est "up-skirts
#2]excuse any typos:
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Pay attention... 2/1/2005
I can't & won't speak for others. I can only
voice my own opinion, for whatever it's worth. Frankly,
if you answer a profile/message that the poster feels you
don't meet their requirements? Don't be surprised
if you get a reply that may singe your eyeballs!
<br>
People; male, female, top, bottom, dom/me, sub, slave,
whatever, get tired of sifting thru the needy, greedy,
fulfill ...
3 Comments,
365 Views,
32 Votes
,7.46 Score
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there was a time 1/18/2005
There was a time I use to answer a polite "no thanks"
to all the mails I received (here or elswhere) beeing a woman
and a Dominant one generate a lot of asking mails.
Use to think I needed a special subcretary to answer all
of them but never found the one *S*
<br>
This took me a enormous amount of time, maybe because I was
more than polite and gave a little answer to every mail ...
7 Comments,
393 Views,
24 Votes
,3.93 Score
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A kinder way to reject a prospect 1/11/2005
My experience with the Alt IM and Chatrooms has left me with
a somewhat bitter taste for the manner in which disinterest
is shown.
<br>
I would suggest that Alt managment devise a more subte and
less semantic manner in which to indicate a lack of interest
in either an IM or private chat arrangement.
<br>
Could we not utilize, "Sorry, but [this person] is
not presently ...
3 Comments,
245 Views,
25 Votes
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ID feel much better 1/10/2005
yes thats right if a person feels the message they recieved
was not for them then a simple no thanks would do the trick.
By saying no in a responceyou let the other member know that
the site is not full of people who just want to show photos
of them selves so to all those who respond NO THANKS THANK
YOU FLASH51167
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72 Views,
9 Votes
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[Another Santa ARRESTED]Touched.sex.11yr.oldElf: 1/10/2005
[DATELINE]ForestCity;ASantaAressted: AP: A-nother.Santa.was.charged.with
.taking taking indecent liberties with one of his girl
elfs. Davie.Cty sheriff's.said.that.the11yr.old.girl
volunteer.elf.was.touched.inappropr- iately as soon
as they left Forest City on the way to his house for a childrens
xmas party, after gaining parents permission to travel
with Santa. ...
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Revealing 1/2/2005
A friendly and polite response to a profile should merit
a "No thanks" if the person doesn't match
one's preferences. If not it would not only be a lack
of "kinderstube": it is surprising how many
people don't realize ho much they are revealing about
themselves by not extending this basic courtesy. Not getting
any reply at all after some time is an answer in itself - and
I for one accept ...
2 Comments,
125 Views,
15 Votes
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Tell Me no, it's ok 12/22/2004
I would rather be told no thanks than hear nothing back.
I follow up with a reply thanking the person for taking the
time to turn me down 
If you get a nasty response, look on the bright side, you
don't have to worry if you made the wrong choice turning
that person down. Then bask in the glow of knowing how bad
they really wanted you.
<br>
Anybody seen my slave?
0 Comments,
90 Views,
17 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Say no thanks and then...... 12/22/2004
Say no thanks and then block the user. That way you don't
have to listen to the whiners.
<br>
Still looking for my slave.
0 Comments,
117 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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In defence 12/18/2004
When I first joined Alt and every other site, I made a point
of replying to each response I got even though at times it
felt as if I needed a secretary.
<br>
I try to be clear on my wants/needs and not to lead anyone
up the garden path...
<br>
I thought that 'thanks for your interest but you are
not for me' would be appreciated instead I received
responses asking ...
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571 Views,
37 Votes
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