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Meh 10/10/2023
When did the messenger stop letting new members message
people using points?
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28 Views,
26 Votes
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Use your common sense 7/9/2023
When looking for an experience on this site, just use you
common sense things are easy to spot and if your are unsure
stay away and be safe.
5 Comments,
51 Views,
29 Votes
,0.53 Score
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dirty 1/16/2023
making sure everyone here is clean and want to meet and checking
things out to make sure you are real not a scam.
4 Comments,
70 Views,
47 Votes
,0.20 Score
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asked for money 8/13/2020
How many people her have been asked for money. The other
day a woman was very sad that she couldn't her rent
at a hotel, she didn't get paid till friday. She said
she was in a hotel, because her husband her, but when
I said I was sorry hear that, and if I could see, she disapeared
from the chat, but stayed onlinr.
4 Comments,
111 Views,
72 Votes
,1.16 Score
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Extreme Abuse 1/2/2020
If you say you are no limits are you in danger of not coming
out alive? <br><br>
Could any NO LIMITS slaves tell me what their experiences
are. And if they have got more cautious as a result of their
lack of limits. <br><br>
Thank you
6 Comments,
96 Views,
67 Votes
,1.65 Score
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Violence and reality for trans 11/25/2019
This year, world-wide, 331 transgenders were slain. Here
in the united states, twenty-two transgender people were
murdered. Ninety-one percent of those folks were trans-women
of color. Eighty percent were younger than thirty years
of age. We know that these numbers represent an undercount.
In many counties and regions police reports, media and
even blood relatives misgender and deadname ...
4 Comments,
153 Views,
110 Votes
,2.40 Score
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A Chat with an Ewhore 6/25/2019
The following is a direct cut/paste from a Google Hangouts
chat log that I recently had with someone who IM'd me
on AdultFriendFinder. It has been reported AdultFriendFinder.
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<br><br>
Ross - 3:28 PM OK, I am on here Rose Garry - 3:29 PM Hello Ross am here with you too Ross - 3:30 PM I can see you are very pretty, you don't have to keep
sending pics Rose ...
8 Comments,
175 Views,
86 Votes
,2.67 Score
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looking 5/15/2018
sometimes we have to look farther and look into what we have
in cumming sometimes it take bdsm to get to know someone
better and get alone and try new thing and explore new thing
with them. getting to meet someone the first time it take
time to get to know them and get to see what they are into one
you get to know them and see what they are into many doors
open to you and you feel more open to ...
0 Comments,
71 Views,
57 Votes
,2.32 Score
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oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 9/20/2017
The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage
other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual
gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip
you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches
in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans
and gifts!
7 Comments,
105 Views,
63 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Public 7/19/2015
Always meet in public first wouldn't you say?
10 Comments,
128 Views,
52 Votes
,2.71 Score
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GAGOL 7/12/2015
Most people struggle with finding their identity at some
point in their life. They go through a series of changes
and eventually come to a point where they understand and
accept who they are. Before they can accept themselves,
they may experiment with new things or try to ignore a part
of themselves they do not want to accept. Gogol Ganguli
from Jhumpa Lahari's novel The Namesake encounters
the ...
5 Comments,
147 Views,
50 Votes
,2.62 Score
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Warning for UK/London based members 4/23/2015
I got messaged by an American girl based in Virginia stating
that she was coming over to London next week and she said
later that she worked with an organisation affiliated
to ALT that hosted orgy parties and the like. When answering
my questions she was very vague and was evidently trying
to grab money off me. Later another account from someone
in LA responded with exactly the same thing. This ...
2 Comments,
109 Views,
48 Votes
,2.95 Score
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How to use SAVE IMAGE AS 2/7/2015
When I am approached by a Mistress, the first thing that
I do is run her profile photo by a number of on line registries.
Take, for example, a domme who emailed me last night. Her
ALT profile situates her in Redding, California. I used
Save Image As to download her profile photo to the desktop,
and then used both Tineye and Google images to do a search.
There was a positive hit, for ...
19 Comments,
334 Views,
85 Votes
,4.40 Score
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Safety in Meeting Men for BDSM 5/18/2012
Comments on Safety in BDSM MJ Reldan TheSmartDom
Our society began with women as chattel and slaves. It hasn’t
set a good scene for safe, sane and consentual play. Some
men feel that acceptance of their dominance is permission
to hold ALL power and worse, license to wield it recklessly.
The world of Dominance gives shelter to people of poor character
and sick mind, with little to ...
2 Comments,
160 Views,
38 Votes
,5.15 Score
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Meeting in Public First 9/3/2011
I think it is important to meet in public first to see if you
like one another then being in someone's home. You
just never know if you like one another. Of course you will
experience no shows but that is part of dating process so
expect it. I know I heard horror stories. So becareful out
there. So how do you feel meeting in public first? Just Curious.
15 Comments,
356 Views,
65 Votes
,5.01 Score
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When is the right time to meet. 12/4/2010
Since i joined this site, i've exchanged a few emails, but
wondered at some point meeting would be brought up, where
should the first meeting take place and should a trusted
friend either witness it or be near by?.of course it should
be in a public place.then it fells like stepping out of my
box or comfort zone, anyone else felt this way?.
6 Comments,
200 Views,
24 Votes
,1.54 Score
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safe sex 1/29/2010
ok so its been a "viral video" with a woman on
there saying all the guys she has infected with aids. but
yesterday on the radio she called in a cleared it up and said
it was just to get more people to view her site and that she
is 100% percent clean. She also said that this was to inform
peole that aids is real and is still going around. SO WRAP
IT UP PEOPLE PLEASE
0 Comments,
78 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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safety 1st 1/29/2010
its always good 2 b safe o a date when meeting someone over
the net. U never know if they are some stalker psycho lol
or anything like that so always b careful... n always wrap
it up
2 Comments,
56 Views,
20 Votes
,0.19 Score
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profiles 4/4/2009
I would like to point out to people that if they do not fill out their profiles with any details,
then they are possibly setting themselves up to be over
looked. However I do wonder what the point of writing this
in the magazine as most of the readers are people who have
put alot of time and effort into revealing important details
about themselv
1 Comments,
38 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Chancing an eggshell ambience 12/24/2008
I have recently visited my local BDSM club nights twice
and once to a munch. The munch was very relaxed but I was still
observing etiquette in this situation. I have found the
club nights very nerve wracking as if I was walking on eggshells.
Granted the first night with a Halloween theme went well
and I played with two women, lucky me. The last 'Burlesque'
themed evening I was smiled at by a very ...
3 Comments,
146 Views,
10 Votes
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Safety is a Rwo Way Street 4/1/2008
Safety on dates is really a two way street. I am not a small
guy and in very hard condition. While not a giant I know how
to care for myself and I have the alpha attitude that keeps
most respectful.
I am selective about who I meet and who I date. I don't
send money to on line contacts with tear jerk tales. Have
had those from east and west in USA as well as Russia, Nigeria
and ...
1 Comments,
134 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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How Do I Find a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress? 6/27/2007
Before you even start looking
for a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress. Know yourself,
what your desires, your wants, you needs, your limits and
what you are looking for in a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress.
It's a good idea to actually write these lists out,
that way while you are talking with them you have the answers
right there and don't have to rely on memory. ...
4 Comments,
247 Views,
28 Votes
,7.14 Score
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what kind of tips should guys follow? 11/2/2006
normally, the tips are targeted to woman, should men follow
similar things, something different, or just go with the
flow?
0 Comments,
201 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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Beware of the clingy woman........ 10/2/2006
Hello everyone. What's up? I love ladies in every way, but
ther is one that can be a nightmare. She's the recently
seperated female that know's only how to be in a relationship.
They can be the best and the crazyest bitch in the world.
So my advice is to just leave everything sexual.....Good
luck...
2 Comments,
168 Views,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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Protection against crazy ex-gf's 9/27/2006
It seems like any jealously crazy ex-girlfriend can pick
up the phone at any time and accuse a man of domestic assault,
what have you, and send them to jail whenever they feel like
it.
As a man we seem to have no rights or protection, it's
always our word against theirs and with these no-tolerance
laws the man always get f**ked over.
What suggestions or ideas do people have to ...
1 Comments,
244 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Protection against crazy ex-gf's 9/27/2006
It seems like any jealously crazy ex-girlfriend can pick
up the phone at any time and accuse a man of domestic assault,
what have you, and send them to jail whenever they feel like
it.
As a man we seem to have no rights or protection, it's
always our word against theirs and with these no-tolerance
laws the man always get f**ked over.
What suggestions or ideas do people have to ...
0 Comments,
28 Views,
0 Votes
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The Best of Times 8/23/2006
What a great age we live in today. Like a lot of people I thought
I was born at the wrong time. I see it more on the alt site,
but I've heard it from several groups. You know, "
I should have been born at this time or that age. But when
it comes to B&D/S&M this is the best of times.
This is the most natural and fun form of "perversion".
Like anything else people can take it too ...
0 Comments,
78 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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Sir Thomas Trains Bob and Clair - Part II 8/23/2006
Sir Thomas had Clair and Bob put their hands behind their
backs. He then tied their wrists together behind their
backs. He opened the door to the hotel room and told them
to follow him. Both Bob and Clair being totally nude were
reluctant to go out of the hotel room. They hesitated just
a second before both of them received blows on their buttocks
with a command, “Move!”
...
0 Comments,
470 Views,
16 Votes
,4.01 Score
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Being safe... 7/11/2006
Don't give them your address & landline phone
number.
Do meet first in a pub;ic place. Do arrange a 'safe call'
with a friend for a certain time.
Don't always listen to gossip. Some is malicious,
more inaccurate.
Do get his full real name, dob & address & phone
number.
Trust your own instincts.
Remember we are all human...
2 Comments,
194 Views,
16 Votes
,5.63 Score
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